Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Merry Christmas and a Happy 2014!

Well its been 70 days since Cami received her life saving transplant and things have not been easy for our little Cami.  The first few weeks at home were extremely difficult.  She was throwing up 5-10 times a day, not eating and needing heavy pain medication for body pain.  Being home is bitter-sweet.  In the hospital I didn't have to worry about the medication stuff as much.  I was there for Cami 100% to console her, hold her and help her with anything she needed.  At home, it is very stressful!  We are now responsible for Cami's care in every way.  We are in charge of her medication schedule, dosing, hooking her up to her IV, cleaning and changing her dressing, making sure the house is as sterile as possible, cooking 'bone marrow safe' foods, and EVERYTHING else that was done by the entire staff up at Primaries.  It is EXHAUSTING and overwhelming to say the least.  I developed severe anxiety in those first few weeks being home.  I would wake up panicked thinking I hadn't given Cami her meds, or that I gave her too much oxycodone.  I'd find myself constantly going in to check on Cami while she was sleeping.  We were all getting very little sleep because her pills needed to be given every 2-3 hours through the night.  I don't remember ever being that tired emotionally or physically in my life, but we still wouldn't trade it because she gets to be in her own bed with her brother down the hall to giggle with and it makes it all worth it.








Here's how Baylee feels about all of it.  The poor girl has been really worried about her Cami.

As hard as it was, here's the good news... We go back to the hospital once a week for checkups and the Doctors say that everything is looking great.  Cami hasn't needed a blood transfusion since we've been home which means her new marrow is now making it's own blood supply.  In the cancer world it is all a waiting game, but for now things look good.  On her 100 day post transplant, we will have a BIG checkup where they will take her bone marrow and test it to see how much of it is her donors and how much is hers.. we want it to be 100% donor on that day with no signs of cancer.  It will be a nerve wracking day.  

We have VERY long days at the hospital while they run tests or give Cami meds or order prescriptions.  It just takes FOREVER!  
Cami made this manger out of popsicle sticks during a hospital visit, yep thats how long we are there!
 

This is Ashtyn.  She had a bone marrow transplant about a year ago and she is doing SO great!  
We love running into friends who are doing so well and give us such hope!

Although Cami didn't feel great through December, we tried really hard to enjoy the season.  We were humbled on so many occasions during this season.  There were times I would get so sad that Cami wasn't out enjoying Christmas the way kids should.  Then sure enough, a sweet friend or family would bring dinner, leave little gifts, or text to tell me they were thinking of us.  I am so grateful for the many of you who have shown our family love and support.  
The true meaning of Christmas sure came through this year in a VERY big way!

We still have to be very careful with Cami.  Her immune system is still very fragile.  She is not allowed back in school for at least a year and we are supposed to keep her out of public places if possible.  A small cold could be very dangerous for Cami, so we try to be very diligent in where we take her and what we do.  Even her food has to be specially prepared to keep it as sanitary as possible and she cannot eat out at all.  Everything is prepared at home.  We did allow one Christmas outing and it was so very special, I can hardly write about it without bawling.  Creative Arts Acadamy dedicated their entire Holiday performance to Cami and her cancer journey.  Each dance was choreographed with Cami's battle in mind.  They had pictures projected and a narrater telling all that she had been through as the music and dancers expressed emotions in ways only dance can.  It was an amazing night and our family was truly shown so much love by our community.  What an amazing Christmas gift!  Cami was able to come sneak in for the last couple dances wearing her mask, it made her feel so special and I am so grateful she was able to be there, if only for a few minutes.  

Thanks to our amazing friends who dedicated so much time into helping make this event possible.

We decorated gingerbread houses 
(Mommy had to do most of Cami's, but she had fun for a little while).

We watched LOTS of Christmas movies under the lights.


Bubba stayed outside playing in the snow with the neighbors until dark one night.. he looked like a snowball when he finally came in!

Cami wanted us to build her a snowgirl, so thats what she got!

Animal Jam playdate in bed!

We spend lots of time snuggling in bed.  It is sometimes the only thing that makes Cami feel better.

This handsome lil dude had his preschool Christmas program 
(which Pat and I took turns watching so we could rush home to Cami).

Since Cami can't be out in public, Santa came to visit the kids here!  
Thank you Santa (thank you Flamm family)!

On Christmas morning, Caden came running in bright and early ready to go down to see what Santa had left him.  Cami asked if she could sleep just a little bit longer (that's when you know your kid feels pretty crappy). 



Usually, we are used to Holiday's filled with our big family and rushing from house to house so we can visit with everybody.  This year, we stayed home and it was lovely.  I tried my best to make our traditional brunch (it didn't even come close to Grandma's, but it did the trick).


We released lanterns to remember our sweet friend Millie.  Oh how we miss that girl!


 



Cami wasn't feeling too hot on New Years either, but she wanted to stay up and party!  She requested that we dress up, so we did!




Cami was feeling a little better New Years day, so we painted the Color Me Mine gifts from Millie's family.  Cami LOVED this!  I can't wait to take her there for 'art class' when she's allowed to be out!


Hooking her doll up to her nightly IV, just like mommy does to her.
Just look at that hair coming in.. so dark and thick-

ironically, she pushes her IV around in a doll stroller.

We have had so many ups and downs the past month. Every day is a hard road and it seems like just when we see a little progress something new begins.  Cami has had issues with kidneys, her legs hurt almost all the time and just yesterday we found out she has a bacterial infection in her gut called C-diff.  It is very painful and without going into too much detail- causes her to spend much of her time in the restroom.  This week we were scheduled to start lumbar punctures (this is where they put her out to remove spinal fluid and inject chemo into her spine because leukemia hides in the brain), but we had to put this off until this c-diff clears up.  

Every single day I look at this child with awe.  She has been sick or in pain since July and still she glows.  Her smile lights up the room.  I get stressed out, worried and negative, but Cami (like her daddy) is so positive and happy, that she just lifts us all up with her.  Even though she wakes up in tears every morning and feels pretty crappy most of the day, she still giggles and colors and tries her best to play.  Oh, I love my little hero, I am so honored and proud to be her mommy.  

40 comments:

  1. You are an amazing family and I'm so grateful your little princess is healing! Blessings and prayers to all of you❤️

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  2. Thank you Chelsea for sharing. I want so bad to come down and see Cami and Caden. But also do not want to bring any bad down that will make Cami sicker. Your entire family continues to be in my prayers. She is a real "SUPER TROOP"!!!!!!!!!! Love you all HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!

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  3. No one will ever really know what you have gone through. Thanks for sharing just a bit of it and for being the heroine in this story. What a mom! What a girl! Love you and still pray for you all every day! I suspect that this year is going to sparkle, once you get her past this 100 days! Love you! Love your optimism and true grit!

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  4. I love that you updated. We love you guys so much!

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  5. Dear sweet Chelsea! I have been thinking so much about you and sweet Cami. I wish I knew ANY way to help you. My heart aches and breaks for you. Your attitude is inspiring and helping me to enjoy my kids a lot more, so thank you for that. Please know that our family never forgets you and your family in our prayers. You are always thought of, every day. I wish so much that no one had to go through any of this ever.

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  6. I know how stressful those first 100 days can be. Hang in there! It does get better. Gwen also had c-diff. Just take one day at a time and see the miracles all around you.

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  7. I am so happy to see another post.I think of your sweet Cami girl and your family everyday

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  8. Stay Strong Carver family. You ALL are HEROS in our eyes! Sending BIG hugs and thoughts your way.

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  9. I will keep praying. Cami is inspiring!

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  10. I am so glad you took the time to post updates, I am sure you have very little time with all of things you are facing right now. My thoughts are with you all.

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  11. Thank you for taking the time to post this update about your family. You guys are such an inspiration and have dealt with everything with such grace and dignity. I don’t know you (I live way up in Canada) but I am always amazed by the strength of your family and especially Cami! My thoughts are with you and I am wishing her a speedy recovery. Go Cami go!

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  12. Chelsea, I don't usually comment, but I've been following Cami's (and your journey) since Shelley (House of Smiths) mentioned Cami. I see so much strength in you and commend you for being such a fabulous mother. I hope this long journey gets easier for you all soon. I also wanted to say Happy New Year and I am thinking and praying for you all from Raleigh, NC.

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  13. Oh my goodness, this brought many tears to my eyes. What a beautiful, loving and strong family you all are! Praying for Cami and that her precious little body is getting stronger each day. You are amazing parents!

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  14. As I read this it brought tears to my eyes and so many memories of my own journey through leukemia and BMT, even though I was much older than Cami, I spent the holidays in the hospital, and was released on New Years Eve 2000. Being home is nice but harder it a lot of ways. But it will get better as she grows stronger and nearer to her 1 year mark. It will be hard but there is a light at the end. Love to you and your family.

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  15. Cami and your entire family remain in our prayers. She is one amazing little girl. :)

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  16. I read your posts and I cry. I look at Cami and I see my Lucca. My heart breaks that these beautiful children with amazing spirits have to suffer. I understand your journey but my heart hurts for your family. It is so hard. But you are so right we are so lucky to be their moms. Much love to you and your family!!

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  17. im SOOOOOOO glad cami is feeling better i have been praying every night for cami's good health oh and HAPPY NEW YEARS CAMI! MAY YOUR 2014 BEE A GOOD ONE! :)

    ~hp17 animal jam (p.s. what is cami's user ? i would like to buddy her and do a adveture with her!)

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  18. I have been thinking about you all and am so glad you did this update. Happy new year to you and your family and please know a stranger in Canada is praying for you guys and sending love your way. Cami is truly an inspiration, and so is your family's candour and positivity. xoxoox

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  19. What a truly beautiful little girl and a hero to us all. I'm so thankful to have read her story and what a inspiration she is. Just know that God is always there with her and he feels her pain but I do believe that this to shall pass. My prayers are with her and your family. May you all feel a little less stressed this coming year and that all things work out for her.

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  20. I think today should be Cami's BIG 100 day post transplant check up. I have been praying that with each passing day Cami is gaining more strength. I anxiously await the results of the bone marrow tests...in hopes that it is 100% donor.

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  21. Hello, I have been checking your blog every day now since your last post and I am bummed to not see a new one, I am starting to get a bit worried about you guys. Is Cami ok, are you all ok? Please post and let us know how you all are doing. Please, thank you.

    Vicky T

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    1. I follow her Instagram account and Cami looks amazing and seems to be doing really well!

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  22. How old is cami?

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  23. It hurts me to see such a fragile little girl in such pain. But Cami is the bravest little girl I have seen! I'm more than happy to see positive posts on Cami's health improving. This brought me to tears of happiness (the post). And I'm glad that Cami enjoys animal jam as well! Praying for your beautiful family! Xoxox

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  24. 22blossomshystarMay 4, 2014 at 4:02 AM

    Hello there all. I am here to say hi to Cami. Hi!
    I am one of the many people who play Animal Jam. Whenever I see the Cami's frog item around, I remember her and her inspirational story. Everybody does. I have not yet been lucky enough to have my own Cami's frog but every day, try to. Not just for the rare-ness of it. Everybody on the game knows her and remembers her. Most read this website. We would all like to know her username so we can buddy her. And meet her for real. One of my closest friends was just taken by cancer, God bless her. Yet even in death, those who believe can find new life. God bless Cami. We, on Animal Jam, all love her.
    Me and some of my friends are getting a little worried. There have been no posts for a while now. Are you all okay? Bless this wonderful family and all that they have had to fight with.
    How old is Cami now, just a question I wanted to ask.
    Bless you all. Cancer will loose the battle. I know it. We all know it.
    From
    22blossomshystar (My Animal Jam username)
    Xxx

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  25. Cami will win this battle I know it. I feel great that she's doing better everyday.
    . -cutegirl70046 (my animal jam)

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  26. I met Cami online yesterday and on Youtube there are stories called "The Story of The Cami Frog"! Most of them have at least 1 flaw but everobe of them make me cry! Cami is fighting her best we all know, and I just know she will win the battle!
    ~Jmk4427 my AJ

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    1. I'd like to see her on AJ, but Idk user

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  27. i do hope cami is ok they have not posted in while, i hope nothing happened to her ! :(

    ~anonymous on edge

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    1. I hope nothing happened

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    2. I follow them on Instagram and Cami is doing great, she looks amazing and so healthy too!

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  28. That's nice she's getting better! :)
    She plays AnimalJam.....? What's her username.....? I found out who Cami was from Animal Jam.. Because they sold "Cami's frog" in 2010

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  29. This here, is a bad expereince i also play animal jam but i never knew that the betacalled
    " cami's frog" was real in jamaa until i saw the story of camis frog on youtube.
    And i also never knew that her dad worked for AJHQ and i think thats how camis frog was made.
    Now whoever wants to remember cami will have to get a cami frog plushie. In the latest video i
    Saw. They said that she died in her sleep. But no matter what, she was with froggy :')

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    1. So, that means she is dead!? When did she die? Oh and i have the same froggy plushieAs cami :)

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  30. Once i had cancer right when i was born. Right now im 27 and im still laying in the hospital.
    My story: i was born in the hospitial with my mom, they gave me a checkup and they noticed
    That i had canver. 1 month later i got new pills asigned. They tasted like poop. Eww.
    5 months later the nurse checked on me and i had cracked my ancle bone. Later i was hooked
    Up to an IV i had too many problems. 1 year later. My dad comes inthe hospital to see me.
    He calls the nurse over to check again. My back was hurting alot and i never got ANY sleep.
    My pills actully gave me another issue, Luekemia. Now i have problems eating and
    Digesting my food. 3 months later my eye suddendly cant see anything, -right eye- the doctor came over as quick as you can say 12 he said that my eye can be harmed easily and badly if i mobe my hair
    Head, or if i blink or breathe. 2 years later. Of beingin the hospital i stoped breathing beacause
    My eye was hurting so much. I also lost my voice for good. So i have to text or draw to tell peopel
    What im trying to say. 10 days later. My heart almost stopped beating. They had to put me to sleep
    To give me surgery to get out my old heart and replace a new one. Now im never going to live again.
    I lost my hair, my heart, my eye, and my friends. My friends feel bad for me. I dont know anything
    Beacause i had cancer, then got luekemia and i never got to go to school. Im not allowed
    To have sugar or be around any of my friends. Then. I got pink eye, it suddenly lasted 1 year and
    A half until it would go away. Then a bully came into my hospitial room and hit me until
    I went into a coma. Sadly my neck twisted my ear was red. Sonow i cant hear so good.
    I have to take bad medicine. Always be with my IV and i think i willbe here until the year of
    2030. When im old. 18 dayz later my luekemia gets worse. I throw up evry 1-5 minutes.
    My back has tons of pain And i suddenly heal. But then as im walking down the street to get home
    A giant truck hits me face first. Thats when i had to go into the emergency room.
    I had scars, cuts, a masive brooze on my eye. Suddenly. My cancer and luekemia came back
    3 days later. My mom comes into the emergency room to see me. I have to take 50 pills every day.
    Different ones. I have to drink water, and eat grapefruits. Soon they found bandages. I was so
    Happy! But then mean people came in. Ripped the bandages. Stole my IV and removed my bandages.
    Then my pink eye came back. Hair started growing in. 4 years later. Nothing has healed.
    The doctors said i wont last long. They gave me a new IV and pink eye medicine.

    Wells thats all people. Do you feel sorrh for me? Im still in the hospital.

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    1. The rest of my story. I also needed to get eye surgery. They forgot to put me to sleep, so
      I was panicing alot. Then i got a big eye patch, a few sticthes and they said i had to wait
      29 more years until i get back out of the hospital. 5 days later, my skin starts feeling
      Weird, and my heart starts beating fast. I hear the fire alarm go off and i had no idea what
      To do, the doctors and my parents forgot me inside, my eyepatch burnt. And i got injured
      Alot from the fire. As they came back in. They saw how injured i was. Luckily they had
      Bandages and a wheelchair with broken feet holders. They just needed to give me a few
      Shots. They said now you have to wait about 49 more years now. They gave me a cup
      Of medicine, and a glass of water. And my 50 daily pills.they noticed that my illness
      Was an Unknown type. They gave me new kidneys, stiches on my head, they took
      Me to the dentist and they had to rip ALLL of my teeth out and replace them with new ones.
      I finally got some rest. Everyone is in the hospitial napping. The tornado siren goes off
      In the middle of the night, i did not hear the siren beacuse of my damaged ear.
      Glass gets in the palms of my hands, 5 peices in my head and 2 on my knee.
      When the tornado is gone they see all the glass in me. They quickly need to get bandages
      Surgery supplies, scissors, and pills. The glass scrapes take 369 days to heal.
      A big scar is in my head, and has currently damaged my brain. It caused me
      Memory loss.

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  31. Hi,
    I've been wondering how Cami is. Please could someone tell me if possible?

    By the way, I'm really wary of leaving comments on here as there seems to be loads of scammmers on here at the moment.

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